Choosing an Officiant for your Wedding

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The officiant is the person, man or woman, who will preside over the actual wedding ceremony. They say or hear the vows and eventually pronounce you man and wife. Choosing an officiant is therefore very important and should not be taken lightly. If religion is a big factor in your life and your wedding, you will probably want a member of your church or organization to do the job.

Religious Weddings

Finding an officiant for a religious ceremony is usually very simple. Typically, the priest, rabbi, minister, reverend, etc. will be happy to perform the duties. Make sure you talk to this person and discuss the wedding with the church administrators to see if everything is ok and to ensure you have them booked on your wedding date.

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Non-religious Weddings

If you are not having a religious wedding, finding an officiant may be a tad more difficult than what you think. Since your venue will not have an officiant available, you will have to find one yourself. Make sure to use all your options. Think of family and friends that might be honored to be asked. These days, being ordained to perform a wedding can be done online. Do your research and consider who you choose very carefully. You need to trust them completely.

Some couples may not be that sentimental when it comes to who officiates the day. If this is the case, consider a local justice of the peace. Government officials are a very popular choice, and you have the benefit of meeting with many of them get a feel for who works best for you and your wedding. There are even web sites that specialize in matching couples with officiants in their area. If you are not having any luck with a justice of the peace, try talking with a notary public.

Finding an Officiant Tips:

Make a list and have all your questions ready to go before you even begin your search. You and your spouse know what is important to you and what is not. Bring that checklist of questions with you to each and every appointment you have with a possible officiant. And mist of all, don’t be afraid or intimidated to question why an officiant refuses to perform something that is important to you. If it comes to that, you may want to move on. Stick with your guns, be prepared, and you will find the right person to marry you on your wedding day.

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